Saturday, December 10, 2011

The End of an Experience

Yes yes, I know: I haven't posted into almost two whole months. But yanno why? Because I've been too busy going to the beach every single weekend. That, and also because I'm lazy by nature.


Well this is it folks, my semester in Costa Rica has come to a close. I could not have asked for it to go more perfectly. The family was amazing; they were nice, pleasant to talk to, and the mom, Rosa, could whip up a mean chicken soup. The father, Victor, was one of the nicest guys I've ever met. Everyday when he came home from work, he'd give me a handshake and ask how my day was. We actually just said goodbye, and he gave me a solid ten second hug wishing me well in life. Rosa offered me a room whenever I need it, in case I want to come back and go to the beaches. Anyone coming with? I feel blessed to have met them and to have lived with them for nearly four months. They're amazing people I won't soon forget.

I've had some incredible beach days, the best of which were in Puerto Viejo. The first trip down there was with a few Canadian friends I met. We didn't book a hostel before hand, so we walked around once we got off the bus and had a look around. We were on our way to one called "Rocking Jays" but, on the way, a little place caught my eye. We walked in and I asked "Usted tiene cuartos disponibles or no...". (Do you have free rooms or not?) He looked at me puzzled, then asked his girlfriend in some Southern Twang "What's cuartos, like four?" So apparently we had stumbled across a few Americans. They were young, around 25-30ish, and were unbelievably chill. They made us popcorn, a bonfire, and hung out with us. They were so appreciative that we liked their place and loved hanging out. The shore was insanely beautiful: a few clouds, not that many people, and water clear enough to see +6ft down. I laid on the beach from 8am-4pm. A full shift of lounging.

Puerto Viejo - The First Time


My last weekend here, I went back to the same place, "Residencias Caribe". Once again, they were great, and the beach was perfect. My friend Nick and I went and did nothing but beach it all day. When we arrived on Friday in the pouring rain. When we woke up ~07:30, the sun was shining and the beach was waiting. This time though, on the walk to the beach, I noticed the waves were HUGE. When I got out in the water, they were well over my head. I'd say they were probably rolling in around 15-20ft or so. It was phenomenal.

Puerto Viejo - The Second Time


But now, after about fifteen minutes or so of packing, I'm all ready to return to The Empire State. The more I think about it, the more I'm ready to get home. I miss the hell outta my family and can't wait to see my friends. Christmas time always creates happiness, and I'm so thankful I get to share that with people I care about. And luckily, I have a job waiting for me (get home Sunday, start Monday).

I'll never forget my time here and am thankful I had this opportunity. My Spanish has improved big time, I got to meet some incredible people, and I've forgotten what the world cold means. I'm sure I'll be quickly be reacquainted with it though.

Hope you see you all soon, miss and love you all. Thanks for taking the time for reading my blog, feel free to talk to me at any point about my trip, or anything, because I miss talking ENGLISH!

NEW YORK BOUND - T-MINUS 11 HOURS

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Cahuita, the Good Life

Just had the best weekend, it couldn't have been more relaxing.

The group and I decided to head to the Caribbean coast for the weekend, to Cahuita. It's just south of Limon, one of the main port cities here. The bus ride there was a solid four hours, but cost a little over four American dollars. Cahuita is basically Jamacia in Costa Rica: carefree atmosphere, reggae out of every speaker, and the faint smell of that green herb everyone seems to love. As soon as you settle in, checked out a few restaurants, and talk to the locals, you could tell relaxation is thankfully impossible to avoid. Paradise

Friday:
We (Lindsay, Stephanie, Kristen, Laura, & I) arrived in Cahuita around 7pm Friday night and were met by Brigitte, the hostel owner. After a relatively long trip and a few bottles of water, food was the priority, but few things seem to come before the beach in my book. Although the clouds dampened the view, the moon provided enough light to see the shore. The vastness of the ocean never ceases to amaze, making you feel both insignificant and little but forever thankful you have the ability to appreciate and enjoy the view. I've realized that the future is chaotically approached by all. We prepare the best we can, and although we may have an influence, the majority of things are not in our control. One thing I plan on controlling? Living on, around, or near the ocean. It's the way to go.




After a quick beach walk, we all went to the local reggae bar/restaurant which was halfway between our hostel and the beach (about a fifteen second walk). The restaurant had a great feel to it: it was complete open, having a roof as the only barrier to the outside. Stray dogs wandered in and out, sometimes looking for a bit of food or sometimes just looking for a little attention. My order was pretty predictable, if you know me at all - the freshest fish on the menu (Red Snapper) with a tall, frosty brew. The snapper was cooked to perfection, didn't need more than a fork to get it off the bone. Oh and it came completely intact, head and tail included - I'm sure you would have loved it, Mom.

After we ate, the girls headed back to the hostel but I stayed back to catch some of the game with the rest of the folks, Costa Rica v. Brazil. The game didn't go as the Ticos would have liked, but it was a good time. I ended up talking with a French kid, around my age, who is vacation throughout CR for a whole month. We bought a few more Imperials and talked soccer. All-in-all, pretty solid night.

Saturday:
The entire time I've been here, seeing a sloth was basically the only important thing on my agenda. Saturday morning, we rented bikes and headed to a sloth sanctuary just north of Cahuita. Now let me clarify a few things: 1. Rented Bikes - not mountain bikes, touring bikes, hybrid bikes, or even a BMX bike. But the bike that Miss Gulch rode in the Wizard of Oz. In fact, it was the exact model. And 2. "Just north" is loosely defined. Apparently, the sanctuary is 30 minutes away. What we failed to realize is that it was 30 minutes in a car, not in a Penny-farthing from the 19th century. Without going into to much detail, after a few broken chains, a ton of sweat, and one asthma attack, we made it to the sloth sanctuary in just over an hour and a half. We spent a good amount of time with the sloths who, in case you were curious, are very passive creatures. Many are in the sanctuary because of an injury or illness that wouldn't allow them to live alone in the wild.







After spending time with the sloths, we trekked back down the highway to the beach. I basically threw my bike down, jumped into a suit, and crawled to the beach with a gallon of water. Hydration and relaxation were the only things on my mind.

The beach by the hostel was nice and close, named Playa Negra because of it's dark sand. I swam out and just floated with the waves from about 3pm to 4pm. I went back to shore to lay down for a bit but was approached by a large, sand covered golden retriever. He was barking aggressively and when I tried to move, he threw himself in front of me, refusing to let me walk further. I looked at him and shrugged. He ran towards a tree and came back with a coconut still in it's hard outer shell. Attacking it like it had insulted his mother, the stray pooch eventually worked the center part free (the part most think of when they hear coconut). He threw it at my feet and gave me that puppy dog look - you know the one. So for the next two hours, I played fetch with a stray beach dog and his coconut on the Caribbean coast. Cross it off my bucket list. People walked by giving me that approving smile you give a dog owner who has a mutually shared love for his dog. I must have thrown that coconut two-hundred times, knowing that the Yanks wouldn't be calling on me for an inning or two for at least the next few months. A few of my friends came to swim, so I went out with them.... and so did the dog. He seemed to enjoy swimming but started barking when it was coconut time again. I didn't mind a few more tosses. When darkness fell, I threw in the towel and told him I'd see him tomorrow. But before I left, I noticed on breaks he had been drinking the sea water, which is obviously horrible for any living being, dogs and humans included. Having the gallon of water, I poured some in my hands to see if he wanted some fresh water instead - he stayed around a drank the whole gallon.


La Playa Negra


I walked the thirty seconds back to the hostel, took a quick shower, and headed into town at around 6pm to meet my friends, Stephanie and Lindsay, for food and drinks. We had planned on staying for a half hour or so, but we ended up trying nearly every cocktail on the menu and buying dinner. I have no idea how long we sat there, but I've never felt more happy that I was doing nothing. While we sat there enjoying the good life, a few guys in the park across the street broke out the drum set; the bar lowered their music and let us chat amongst the drum beats. Holy shit, so this is why people here are so happy. I'll be coming back in the future, for anyone who wants to scope the scene.

We went to the same club that night with the whole crew. Live reggae music and $2 beers? You'd have to TRY not to enjoy yourself. One thing about Ticos is that they refuse to dance unless they have a partner. Americans? We don't care, we dance with everyone or no one. So basically, we tore that place up, singing and dancing until the wee hours of the night. I'll never forget singing 'One Love' as loud as I could with all my Costa Rican buds. As per usual, I had my weekly conversation with a homeless guy: we talked about crime, drugs, women, and life - how easy failure is, but resilience is the key to all success. Great memories, great night. It was the best day I've had in 2011.

This week ends my first half of school. When Friday ends, I'll be starting my week long break. I'll be headed towards the Pacific Coast to Manuel Antonio, just south of Quepos. I'll be going alone (sorry Mom) but a week with nothing but laying on the beach is exactly how I want to spend a week in Costa Rica. A good time to read a few books, relax in the sun, and reflect on my past, my present, and my future.

Chiquita Banana field



I miss my friends and family in New York, especially my Oneonta crew. Time here has been fantastic and in no way do I want to speed it up, but I look forward to my return to the City of the Hills. If you are reading this, you can rest assured I miss you and your company, and that I'd love to hear from you. Whether you're family, Oneonta friends, home friends, or past friends, get in touch! I miss you all tremendously.

Wishing you well, sending all my love, and hoping life for you is as good as it is here,
Dan



Pura Vida, mis amigos

Hasta pronto

Monday, September 12, 2011

Time - it's not ours.

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Ten years ago, our lives changed forever.





They didn't plan on dying that morning.
Mothers & fathers, sons & daughters, best friends & acquaintances - human beings. Life for them was not meant to last, cut short by the delusional desires of men seeking to gain favor with their god. Many know the names who passed on that day, all have heard stories of bravery and heroism. "A day of infamy" fails to capture our sentiments. The emotions brought upon us cannot truly be summarized through any media.

Never in my life have I had the overwhelming combination of sadness, fear, & frustration. Anger & confusion. The discussion of "who's to blame" will go on for years, the question "why" will never be answered, and the thoughts of the deceased will fail to subside.

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You never know what tomorrow will bring: we've heard it all before. But it seems the mantra "I'll do it tomorrow" is one that far too many subconsciously live by, myself included. It needs to be dropped from our vocabulary, from our minds completely. Those we lost on September 11th did not have the luxury of tomorrow, and neither do we. Only the big man upstairs knows when our time is; we should not be wasting our days, putting things off until later, pushing thoughts away until our mind returns them to us. We give away time that does not belong to us. If there is something you have wanted to do, do it. Or something you need to say? Say it, don't wait. Haven't accomplished a dream? What are you waiting for! Our country lost over three-thousand men and women in the BLINK OF AN EYE. These were people who had dreams, goals, & aspirations; people who wanted more out of life, but were not give the chance.

In those final moments, it is said that a flash back of your life comes before you, a conclusion of what your name stood for. Do you want to look back and realize there are things on your list that haven't been checked? That you never told that one special person how you felt? The acknowledgement that a lifelong dream has gone unrealized, turned into the sadness of lost potential? Regret is a terrible replacement for ambition.


Think about it.




  
The time for living is now, because tomorrow is anything but guaranteed.

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Sunday, September 4, 2011

So apparently I...

...do the same couple of things over and over.


The nice thing about new friends is that they point out things that they notice about you, things your friends at home already know to be a part of you and your personality. When you meet someone new, you sub-consciously observe and note there actions, or so is my experience.

The top three things I've been said to mention more than often:
  1. Soccer
  2. Wanting to walk everywhere
  3. Beer
* sometimes in the same sentence


    Sounds about right.



    A week in Costa Rica, I feel settled. The excited stage has warn away, and the fact that this is my home for the next few months has at last sunk in.



    I haven't any real stories to write about, so I'll just blabber about things. Cool? Cool.

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    Shaving cream is a waste of money, soap works just as well.

    I bring my raincoat with me wherever I go. It rains here at 2pm.. everyday. 

    My host mother cooks very well, I eat like a king. 

    I must have killed at least 200 little ants since I've been here. They're everywhere.

    I take the bus to the city - it's like riding Spacemountain.
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    The security to get into the bank is equal to that of Newark airport.

    We got pulled over in a cab the other day for having too many people.
    Nothing happened.

    Ticos like limes, a lot.

    If you wear a white dress to the club, you're a slut - I guarantee it.

    Every car here is manual (stick shift).
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    I really like Yucca, and really don't like fresh papaya.

    Top three types of stores here: Shoe stores, Bakery's, and
    the "useless crap no one needs" stores

    Everytime you see another American, you nod.

    Really enjoying my classes. I don't get it either.

    New favorite beer: Imperial.
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    I met a homeless guy from Brooklyn in the park today. His name was Owen; 
    we talked for a half hour.

    Which reminds me, homeless people love white people. 



    Section of [things I miss] 
    • English speaking family members
    • Video games
    • PB&J's
    • 56 Maple Street
    • A good pillow
    • Screens on windows
    • Cereal 
    Pura Vida, Mis Amigos
    Hasta Luego

    Tuesday, August 30, 2011

    #thingsIdo

    My host father has revealed to me that he likes "za nueva jork jankees".
    You sir, have been approved.

    Monday, August 29, 2011

    Desemparados

    Change of plans, this part will not be about the house; that will come soon enough, I guess



    Studying in Costa Rica, thus far, has proven to be a great decision: friendly people, nonstop supply of great Hispanic food, and plenty of time for naps. Firstly I will list some differences and some aspects of life abroad that are not so similar to everyday happenings up in the states.
    1. There are dogs EVERYWHERE. And not like in a cute, "aww I had a dream like that once" kind of way - they just roam the streets, doing their business where ever they please, and cross the road at will. They're all dirty, and they all don't acknowledge the presence of humans. It's actually pretty sad. They drink out of any hole with water they can find are scared of anything that comes near them.
    2. Along with dogs, the roads are usually filthy. People just throw their garbage on the ground without any regard to cleanliness. Sidewalks here are destroyed and require you to carefully contemplate where your next step will be. Basically, I live in the ghetto. It's interesting because Ticos know that their city has problems, but will always say that everything is peachy keen. They are legitimately always happy and therefore never ever EVER complain. The phrase of all Costa Rican's is "Pura Vida" or pure life, and it sums up the mindset down here: regardless of anything, life is good and pure - cherish it. Kind of a nicer way to think, if you ask me.
    3. Comparatively, electricity is more expensive here. So much so, that nearly all homes lack the giant water heater that we are used to; instead, they have a bigger shower head thing, that holds and heats water, like a thermos type thing. It's attached to an electric source and heats up as much water as it can, but you must use little water, not full flow. I've heard its quite popular throughout South and Central America. It forces you to take quick showers (no more than five minutes or so) which suits me just fine.
    4. There are very very very few addresses here. To give directions to a taxi driver, you must instruct him as to what landmark your house is nearest too, then instruct him turn by turn. Also, in order to send mail, you must write something like this: Mr. Daniel Hylas, 50 meters west & 100 meters north of the police station, and 25 meters south of the Pizza Hut, Desemparados, Costa Rica.... no joke! And God help you if you don't write "This is not commercial property" at the top of a sent package, then it would have been faster to deliver it yourself while riding one of those stray dogs, backwards, in the rain.
    I've also uncovered a few things you should and shouldn't do around the house. For one, do not take your shoes off. Ticos believe that disease and sickness in the house spreads through the feet and scoff at bare feet or socks. In addition to constant shoe wearing, one should not leave the bathroom door open, whether or not someone is in there doesn't matter - closed at all times. While we're on the topic of "bathroom etiquette", it's important that I mention that most toilets here can't handle toilet paper, but there is a garbage bin next to it that can. Luckily, my host family doesn't mess around when it comes to that, and hooked my bathroom up big dog style.

    Saturday
    I had orientation with my four other (girl) classmates. Yes, this program has a total of five students and five professors  - it's relatively new and is situated in the middle of a residential area in a two level building. My professor told me today that the building was originally built and owned by a man who won the lottery and quickly spent every penny he had. Unfortunately for that guy, we now have a conveniently placed, small school to learn in (with a shower, if learning gets really crazy or something). The rooms don't have numbers, but rather are named after countries, and are no bigger than a dorm room in Golding Hall (8 desks and a carpet from 1974); I have literature in 'Chile' with one other student and culture in 'Peru'. I have class (along with a few coffee breaks) from 8-2 during the week except on Wednesdays, which is baller. Profesora Patricia said they are days to catch up on work and/or explore the area. The professors are well educated and beyond thrilled we chose them. Overall, it's a nice, quaint environment to learn in.

    Later in the day, mi madre tica asked if I wanted to go to mass with the family; I of course agreed and Victor, Rosa, la abuelita Maria, and I got in a Yaris and rolled up to church. It was exactly the same sequence as the church I attend at home, which was great, but at the end... they sell little cups of rice pudding outside !! I was pumped.

    Sunday
    Don Eugenio (a Swiss national who speaks fluent French, Spanish and German) took me and two of my other classmates, Cherry and Stephanie, through a pretty extensive tour of San Jose, the capital. The city itself will need it's own blog post, but for now I'll just say it's much less pleasant than NY - ton's of awful smells, a lot of horrible looking buildings, and garbage everywhere. And if you think this describes even the worse parts of NYC, you need to fly down and visit. But for some reason, the city has this bizarre charm that makes me love it. I'll go more into detail during the next go around.

    I think I'm going to try posting everyday, even it's just something small and insignificant. Also, I'm going to write what I ate that day, so you can get an idea of what a typical day of meals consists of.

    Section of Yummm:

    Breakfast
    • Two pieces of Italian style bread, margarine on both sides
    • Some typle of Bologna/Ham hybrid meat - put on one of the sides
    • Guava jelly on other side
    • Watermelon
    • Coffee, Water

    Lunch

    • Three chicken pieces, like big nuggets
    • Rice, Greenbeans, Blackbeans w/ cilantro
    • One plantain w/ white cheese
    • Coffee, Water

    Dinner
    • Two burritos w/ black beans, cheese, and chicken
    • Coffee, Water 
    Hope everyone is well, feel free to skype me at any point (dan.hylas) - I love seeing familiar faces that speak to me in English! I'm off to finish my homework, and probably eat something (got hungry after recapping what I ate today).


    Pura Vida, mis amigos